What do women really want? They always seem to have a complex pattern of behavior. They change mood every now and then. Want this and that on the first minute and changes her taste after a heartbeat. When you give them what they want they never are contented, well males are sometimes like this, but for her, she's on a superior level. They seem to be like the ocean always making random waves splashing on the rocks of the sea shore.
Parents (our social upbringing), our schools, and especially the media- through movies, music videos (an example is a crappy song of Christina Aguilera, "what a girl wants"), commercials, soap operas and sitcoms- have all told us how to treat a woman and "what a girl wants". But has it ever occurred to you that women never fall for "nice guys" who try to give them what they want? Furthermore, has it ever dawned on you that WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT anyway? Do you get the irony in all this? I hope so. However, "getting it" just doesn't cut it, in order to give a girl what she wants and needs, you need to understand it, and you need to live it.
So how do you understand and live it? Simple, you should care for them. And caring for them is not caring AT ALL. The best way to understand their wants is not asking that question at all. WHO CARES WHAT THEY WANT AND HOW THEY WANT IT? Why should I? Why should you? By not minding them you allow them to be free and exercise the God-given freewill, to do whatever pleases them and how ever they want it. Since women change what they want as often as a baby's diapers are changed, you can't really care about what they want, you will simply go crazy trying to give a girl what she wants. The feeble male mind is not equipped to handle such drastic fluctuations in desires. You'll need to give her not what she wants but what she needs, and that is a steadfast rock.
Woman in reality have no definite path in their deciding powers. They are indeed an small replica of the SEA. They often change direction like the tides and waves, which are continuously splashing against the rock on the sea shore. Although they can give you the most peaceful and calmest experience, they are also the ones whom you can experience the fiercest storms of the sea, that can wreck and sink every man's ship that crosses their path. If women are sea, what should men be to satisfy them?
If woman is the sea, man are (or ought to be) their natural counterpart, land. A man should be the shoreline and the rocks. Steadily upholding to his established virtues, rules and principles and sticking with it, plus without doing anything. By doing so, the ocean is free on being wild and unstable on continuously attacking the steadfast rock, but still going back to its limitations, thus staying bound by the strength of man(If the rock is strong enough it can endure the random personality of the sea).
The ecosystem itself balance its self out. So the best way of caring for the environment is you should leave it as it is, and you will live with it. I mean there's nothing woman needs from you to be stable, time will balance them out.
"You cannot do anything, but to stop what you are doing." - Niccolo Q. Garcia
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Friday, January 9, 2009
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- I owe my life not to a creator, not to the creator, but to MY CREATOR,.I will live this life to my style,.in my own way of doing what is in HIS discretion is right.,nobody can neither tell me that I am wrong nor unrighteous, so I am with the rest of Humanity. No one can Judge me, and no one can I judge; Only my Creator can judge me,.Only OUR Creator can Judge us.